feeling philosophical

how do you know when you want to be with someone?

is it in the moments... when he says the sweet things that make your heart hurt a bit? when he says the things that make your head hurt even more?

how do you know when you want to be with yourself?

i'm good at that. i'm good at being alone, at being single the word most girls hate. i don't think of myself as erikaand but rather as erika- me, the real me, the crazy me, the me who says things she doesn't mean.